Many westerners feels uncomfortable refusing a girl afraid of hurting her feeling and so on , so many mamasan first sends their ugly ones before showing you the good stuff. I traveled to Kunming because I had "yellow fever. I'm sure they could get laid like rock stars if they wanted to. It takes time, patience, and perseverance to survive in a place where virtually nobody speaks english and Kunming locals barely speak the national putonghua dialect. Kunming is the capital and largest city in Yunnan Province, , , Southwest China.